Prayer Partners
You may ask what is so important about having prayer partners? We’re just studying here together…why
would Satan be interested in bothering us?
Nehemiah’s “project” to rebuild the wall in
In Nehemiah 4:1-3, we see the enemies of the Lord began to mock those repairing the
wall to discourage them.
The people’s response? They
were only prompted to work the harder.
Filled with anger, the enemies conspired together to fight and
hinder the work, Nehemiah 4:7-8.
APPLICATION:
You may find during this concentrated time of spiritual progression,
God’s enemies subtly attacking your time, your schedules, your homes, your
times with the Lord, your times of study and meditation, your times of peace
and physical well-being, and yes, even your time to come together to study
God’s Word…all to cause you discouragement and hinder your keeping on with
God and His work in you.
Nehemiah’s response to God’s enemies is found in chapter 4:9:
“Nevertheless we made our prayer unto our God, and set a watch
against them day and night, because of them.”
It is clear we not only need to pray ourselves and have God place
a hedge around us that we might not be tempted to keep from God working
in us to become His called women, but also, we need others to pray for us
as well…they are helping us to keep a watch against the wiles of the Devil. We need them to shoulder God’s work.
So, please don’t neglect in selecting two prayer partners if you
have not already done so, and also, keeping in touch with them as to where
you need prayer as you seek to become the woman God has called us to be.
Called To
Be God’s Woman: A Titus 2 Woman
KEY Verses:
Titus 2:3-5
Lesson 2 - Elders and Oppressors
Titus
1:5-16
OPENING: We all live someplace! Where do you live?
Some live in the city, some live in the country, some live IN Maine and some OUTSIDE of Maine; some live in the Northeastern United States and some live in another country; another continent.
Perhaps we live where we live because we were born there, or perhaps
moved here, as we did when we retired.
Wherever it is that God places us as Christians, we are where we
are, by His design---placed there to be a witness for Him.
Our minds paint pictures of different places in the world. If we were to mention
Today’s lesson brings us to
LOCATION -
THE CIVILIZATION
- The Minoan civilization flourished there
before the time of Christ.
(Acts 2:11) tells us that on the Day of Pentecost, Jews from
“Today
It is important for us to understand what
+ [Cyclopedia
of Biblical Theological & Ecclesiastical Literature, McClintock &
Strong, Vol. II C-D, Publisher: Baker]
You have perhaps heard it said, and maybe of yourself, if you want
something done, give the job to a busy person. They will probably get it done. By and large, I think this is true. Perhaps the reason for accomplishing the
task is because that person has a heart to get the work done. They do more than ‘say’ they agree and
believe in something, they put their mind and shoulder to the task and accomplish it.
The Lord says it this way in Luke
16:10a, “He that is faithful in that
which is least is faithful also in much: …”
Tonight, we will learn a little
more background on Titus, himself, exploring why Paul sent him this letter
and why he was worthy to meet the charge given to him by Paul.
We know Paul, the author of this epistle presents his credentials
in the verses that have gone on before:
He is a servant of God; an apostle of Jesus Christ.
His heartbeat and commitment is
to give out the Gospel which was committed to him.
He takes the stewardship of this commission by God very seriously.
We learned last week, of Titus and Paul’s close relationship…it was
that as of a ‘son’. Knowing
Titus as well as he did, Paul had sent Titus to do the hard jobs in times
past and now, left on
Read
tonight’s portion of [B] Titus 1:5-16
The letter to Titus was sent him
while he was in
Question 1 – Why was Titus left
in
In verse 5, Paul makes it clear that there are some very needed things
to be done in
Evidently from Paul’s previous visit
to
Paul was dedicated to seeing whatever
work he’d begun, to be completed.
If he couldn’t be the one to complete a job, he left worthy men,
like Timothy and Titus to complete them. (I Tim. 1:3; I Thes. 3:10) FYI – Titus was
written about the same time as I Timothy.
APPLICATION – Too often, in our zeal to serve,
we jump right in with two feet, without going to the Lord first and asking
Him if this is something He wants us to do or not. Our zeal may sometimes run amuck because
of pressure. A task needs to
be done and no one is rising to the front to do the job, or perhaps we are
so zealous in the Lord that we want to be involved and will do anything
and everything we are
asked to do. Zeal is wonderful! However, we have to run our zeal by the
Lord FIRST. Not
everything we’re presented with or asked to do is in the Lord’s plan for
us. On the other hand, we must
not sit back and remain idle, either.
Knowing where the Lord would have us to serve and how, takes much
prayer. And, then, it takes
action.
Once we accept a ministry or service
for the Lord, a good principal for us to follow is to
finish that which we begin, in the Lord and for the Lord.
Paul’s pattern is one that mimics
God, for God does not, “leave His work of grace unfinished.” Phil 1:6 says this: “Being confident of this very thing, that He which hath begun
a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:”
The question I would ask you tonight is this: what has the Lord required of us individually? What would He have us to do? Not, what we would like to do, but what would HE have us to do. Are we willing to do whatever He asks…and then, to do it? Are we willing to not grow weary in well-doing and see the task to the end? Titus was such a man. He was always willing to do the Lord’s will and to finish it.
Question 2 – Setting things in order affected who?
Men who qualified (vs. 6-9) and were chosen for the office of elder;
his wife and his children (vs. 6-7) , other people (vs. 8 “good men”) and those who contradict sound doctrine, that is the “gainsayers” (vs. 9).
*(a) – Note that this epistle served
not only as Titus’ credentials but also as a rule for Titus’ guidance. And, for today, it is also a code of rules
for all time, as to the qualifications of elders and the mode of enforcing
doctrine and duty.
*(b) Martin Luther,
in speaking of the Epistle to Titus, said, “This is a short Epistle, but
yet such a quintessence of Christian doctrine”, that is, the purest essence
or the most typical example of Christian doctrine, “and composed in such
a masterly manner, that it contains all that is needful for Christian knowledge
and life.”
*Bibliography:
(a) George Smeaton, The Apostles’ Doctrine of the Atonement, pg. 326
(b) The Unfolding Drama of Redemption, W. Graham Scroggie, pg. 239.
In verses 5-9 we will see the nature of the
government in the church and then in verses 10-16, we will discover ‘the why’
it is necessary.
The principal office in the Church is that of bishop or elder.
I. His general qualifications: A bishop must be blameless,
vs. 6.
He must be a man of exemplary character and behavior in his private
life. One who is not called
in question or called to account.
In the Pastoral Epistles by
Homer Kent,
(pg. 213),
we read that “the gender of the terms in this passage is masculine, showing
that the overseer must be a male who cannot be successfully accused on any
of these important matters.”
Homer also says, “the reasons for such a high standard is the fact
that overseers are stewards of God’s property.”
The Bible calls such a man
as this: “blameless”.
II. His family qualifications: These are two-fold: the husband of one
wife, and have faithful children, (vs. 6)
a. One wife. There was to
be no polygamous unions.
APPLICATION – We can see a picture of Christ, the Bridegroom and the
church, the bride. There’s
only ‘one’.
b. faithful children – That
is, children who were believers; children who were not unruly; children
who would not bring shame to their parents.
Children
who were pagans would be a great handicap to an elder. And also, having children who were believers,
but were not respectful or well-behaved, “unruly” as the Bible puts it,
would also prove to be a source of embarrassment to their father. If he could not rule over his own family,
how was he to be a good steward of God’s people? How could God trust such a man with this
precious responsibility?
III. His
personal qualifications: a good steward of the things of God, not
self-willed, a man that controls his temper, a man that is not a drinker,
nor one that uses physical force, one not greedy of gain, hospitable, one
who loves goodness (vs. 7b-8a).
Let’s take these individually. He must be a good steward or caretaker
of things that pertain or belong to God.
What follows will help the elder to be a good steward.
WHY? should the elder not be one that is self-willed?
a.
The elder is not to be a man that is interested in pleasing himself:
that is, interested or to take pleasure in things for himself. He’s not a ME,
APPLICATION – Such a person that doesn’t meet these personal qualifications as a Pastor, should send
up a ‘red flag’ to the body of Christ as one who should not be in authority
as their pastor.
Continuing with the qualifications, why do you think the elder must be someone who is not soon angry? Not given to wine? Not a striker? Not given to filthy lucre? (ladies answer) (then, take one by one again).
b. Not soon angry – In the
Greek, “orgilon’, this speaks of one who is “irascible, prone to anger.”
[Pastoral Epistles
by Homer Kent, pg. 214] He must be a man who has self-control.
c. Not given to wine – We
can see how being a drinker could certainly trigger the anger; how he could
become quarrelsome; how his judgments concerning that over which he is a
steward, could be flawed; how drink could lead to ‘being a striker’.
d. Not a striker – This refers to one who is pugnacious. One who is ready to use his fists to resolve a problem.
e. Filthy lucre – One that is not shamefully greedy of gain.
Illustration: Tell of our experience with the church we visited where a second offering was taken for personal gain...but hidden from the congregation until after the offering was taken.
APPLICATION: The Bible speaks to us of not serving both God and mammon…money.
These are the ways of the world…and not how believers should respond
concerning money; how much more for the elder to not be guilty of filthy
lucre.
f. Hospitable – The root
of this word: ‘philoxenon’, means loving strangers.
In these Biblical times, there were not many places suitable accommodations for those traveling. Inns were often scenes of brawls and vice. The elder was to be one that would welcome the traveler. Homer Kent, Jr.* also says that this virtue had other opportunities to be given displayed when it concerned widows and orphans. *[The Pastoral Epistles, Published by Moody Press]
APPLICATION: Having this good example from the elder also provided the
body of Christ with an excellent example of what their response should be
to strangers.
Can you think about opportunities we might have within the church to follow this example?
We have many opportunities in our church when we have visiting missionaries,
speakers, singing groups, etc. who come in faithfulness to God and as good
stewards: testifying of God’s work in their lives; who bring us God’s Word and ministry;
who bring glory to God. Our
response should not be to expect someone else to do this…but for us to pick
up our ‘cross’ in this area and also lighten the burden for the Pastor or
others in the congregation who ‘always’ do it.
Could the Lord be speaking to any one of us to serve Him in this
particular way?
Obviously, we cannot always meet this need all the time, but it goes
without saying, when we do entertain strangers, we are obedient and pleasing
to God.
g. Lover of good men - This
is an extension of being hospitable.
The elder is a lover of goodness: that is, a devotion to all that
is good and beneficial; a devotion to everything worthwhile.
TO RECAP: what we’ve covered
so far: the elder must be blameless, the husband of one wife, faithful children,
a man who is a good steward of the things of God, one who is not self-willed,
not soon angry, not a drinker or a striker, nor one greedy for money, one
who is hospitable and devoted to everything that is good and beneficial.
When we look at these qualifications thus far, we can see how exceptional
the elder must be and the great
responsibility he bears before God and for the responsibility for God’s
people. It is a very straight
line to have to walk. Let’s
now continue with a look at his mental, spiritual and moral qualifications.
IV. His mental qualifications –
The elder is to be sound-minded.
Sound-minded is also synonymous with being spiritually sober. Sober in judgment, calm so as to not be
turned aside by false teachings. Again,
referring back to “not given to wine”, the elder needs to be always controlled
by the Spirit and to be without any impairments to his physical or mental
capacities. Sound-minded! (vs. 8b)
V.
Spiritual and Moral Qualifications - (vs.
8b) “just, holy, temperate” and (vs. 9),
“holding fast” to God’s Word as he has been taught…so that he may teach
others.
Let’s take these one at a time:
a. “Righteous” – (dikaion) refers to being a ‘just’ man. The elder’s conduct must be one that meets with God’s approval.
b. “Holy” – (hosion) refers to the elder being holy “in the sense of
his being unpolluted.” The
elder must be holy in the moral and religious sense: his walk and his talk
should match.
c. “Temperate” – refers to the elder being self-controlled (egkrate). He is a man that keeps himself in check and restrained in every way, and in the Greek, it particularly refers to sensual appetites.
d. “Holding fast the faithful
word” of God – That is, the elder is one who must cling to the Word which
is characterized as faithful, trustworthy, or reliable (pistou). [Homer
A. Kent, Jr., The Pastoral Epistles, pg. 215].
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From these qualifications thus far, we see from these very ‘public’
qualifications, the elder must be ‘loyal to the word of God, able to teach,
faithful as God’s steward.
Question 4 - Why did Paul require Titus to find men with these qualifications?
To find men with these qualifications
would certainly be a challenge in
Continuing in Titus 1:10-16,
we now come to the second portion of tonight’s study:
The Offenders.
Question 5 – What is the reputation of the Cretans from
A.) verse 10?
and
B.) from verse 12?
A.) We see from vs. 10 they are unruly, vain talkers, deceivers; The Cretans are insubordinates: they are disobedient to God’s Word. Their talk is empty (vain), achieving no useful purpose.
A note on “of the circumcision”
– Ryrie says, “this is a group that required keeping the law for
salvation and/or sanctification (Gal.
B.) We see in verse 12, God’s Word says, they are always liars, evil beasts, and idle gluttons (slow bellies).
The “prophet of their own”, that
verse 12
refers to, is Cretan poet, Epimenides. [Ryrie states that he “exaggerated
for effect”.]
Question 6 – What further instruction does Paul
give to Titus?
From verse 11: Paul’s instructions to Titus is
to STOP the mouths of these OFFENDERS. The primary meaning of STOP is to ‘gag, muzzle, bridle’ the
mouths of these Cretans.
And in verse 13, Titus is to rebuke them sharply. (R.Q.)Why would Paul give
these instructions?
Deceivers within the congregation of believers were not to be tolerated.
They needed to be silenced by Titus and the soon-to-be appointed
elders.
In verse 11 we see that they are upsetting families by teaching a false
doctrine and their motivation to do this?
PROFIT! They
choose to gain money for their own pockets, at the demise of another. Their evil ways could cause families to
wander away from the truth. They
certainly had no interest in a holy God, heeding His Word; their only interest
was themselves.
“We are not told how the silencing was to be accomplished. However, in these verses we have some
examples of Paul’s intent.”
I Timothy
1:3,4
- teaching only Gospel; 1:20, a remedial discipline of Hymenaeus
and Alexander who had made “shipwreck” their faith, Ryrie says; they were
to be refused any help or fellowship from the church; and 4:7-refusing old wives’ fables.
II Timothy 2:16, 21, 23 avoid vain babblings and foolish questions; strifes; and 4:2
– be ready to preach the Gospel at any time,
reproving and rebuking hearers;
Titus 1:13b rebuking brings soundness in the faith; and
“At first the errorist should be tenderly admonished so that he may
be won for the truth. If he
refuses, he must be sharply reprimanded and told to desist. The person who persists in his evil ways
must be shunned by the church and disciplined. The supreme measure, excommunication,
may have to be employed in order to safeguard the church and in order to
bring the sinner to repentance.” [New Testament Commentary, William
Hendriksen, Baker Book House, Publishers, pg. 351]
Question 7 - What is the character of the Cretans?
We find this answer in verses
14, 15 and 16.
They were given to Jewish fables,
or myths. They were Gnostics…that
is they had knowledge, of a sort, on Old Testament Scriptures (Adam, Moses,
etc.,) or legalistic, and spread their stories, turning men from God’s truth. (v.
14).
In verse 15, we read their “minds and consciences are defiled”.
In verse 16, they profess to be believers, but yet their lives
deny God. They are reprobates.
We can see from this account the
great responsibility given to Titus by Paul.
His appointing of ELDERS to head up the various groups of
believers in
Question 8 – Despite the reputation,
character and false profession in
Titus 2:1 – “Speak the things which become sound doctrine…”
We see that Titus certainly was charged with a humongous task before
him in
APPLICATION – Whenever God gives us something to
do that is ‘foreign’ to us, we must realize that we are not alone in the
working out of the task. God
gives us what He knows we need and what He knows we can accomplish, if we
are holding to the faith and looking to Him for guidance and wisdom to accomplish
the task. How do we meet the things the Lord presents
to us when a new and unfamiliar challenge is placed before us? Will we trust the Lord knows what He is
doing? Will we, by faith, go
forward?
In our next lesson we will begin to address the conduct of the
members of the body of Christ.